Introduction
A Blessing for Beginning
INFANCY
Letters to our Children: Writing our Stories
Joy in a New Creation: First Doctor’s Appointment
Becoming a Mother : Seasons of Beginnings
Permission to Be New: New Motherhood
The Power of Names: Naming our Children
Swaddling Fear and Wonder: Managing Anxiety
My Alleluia Song: Birth Stories
Wonderfully Made: Body Image and Motherhood
Nourished: Community and New Motherhood
A Worthy Calling : Milestone: Going Back to Work after Maternity Leave
The Moon at 3 AM: Seasons of Sleeplessness
A Note to the Sleep-Deprived Mama: Motherhood Milestone: Broken sleep
Blessing our Kids: Faith Formation
Embracing Fullness: Motherhood and Identity
Waiting on Words: Seasons of Comparison
Rinsing Bottles and Searching for Peace: Grappling with Mom Guilt
Prayers of the People: Learning to Pray
Someone to See Me: Working Motherhood/Friendship
Marriage and Missing Puzzle Pieces: Marriage
TODDLERHOOD
Cries in the Night : Coping with Illness
“You’re Doing Great, Mama!” : Seasons of Doubt and Uncertainty
Making Home: Comparison and Contentment
Each Day a Gift : Days of Small Things
Forgiveness at Mealtime: Managing Emotions and Saying Sorry.
God’s Favorite: Seasons of Trust
Every Ending a Beginning: Milestone: Weaning
Growing up at the Park: Seasons of Letting Go
What We Carry: Emotional Labor
Taking Care: Learning to Mother
How We Measure: Comparison
A Lesson from Hide & Seek: Connecting with God
The Beauty of Christmas: First Church Pageant
Remembering Loved Ones: Grief and Memories
She Taught Me to Mother: Mothering Mentors
God’s Masterpiece: Seasons of Trust
Enjoying the Crumbs: Our “Good Old Days”
Growing as a Mother: Seasons of Growth
CHILDHOOD
A Gentler Approach to Mornings: Motherhood and Anger
“What’d You Have for Breakfast?”: Seasons of Connection
Water and Light: Milestone: Baptism
Morning Quiet Time: Investing in the Mother
The Miracle of Rest: Self-Care for Moms
Worshiping with Children: Faith Formation
“Mommy, Follow Me!”: Catching Faith from our Children
A Mother’s Hands: Seasons of Change
The Power of Words: Learning Generosity from our Children
More than a Mess: Seasons of Paying Attention
A Sledding Date to Remember: The Power of Play
Nothing is Lost: Seasons of Small Things
Waiting on a Miracle: Season of Trying to Conceive
Hand-Me Down Love: Connection with Others
When Grief Speaks: Loss/Miscarriage
The Weight of Worry: Seasons of Anxiety
Hope in Flowers: Pregnancy After Loss
Summer Days are Meant for the Pool: Remembering our Baptisms
Tell Your Story: Motherhood and Identity
Important Work: Seasons of Paying Attention
“I’m Sorry”: Asking Forgiveness
Same Team: Marriage and Parenting Together
Before You Were Born: Trusting in God
Prayers While Expecting : Preparing for a New Baby
“Another Jesus Story, Please!”: Sharing the Gospel with Children
I Can Hear You!: Listening to Others
Brave and Scared: Milestone: First Day of Preschool
First Day of Kindergarten: Milestone: Starting Kindergarten
Goodbye Diapers: Milestone: No More Diapers
A Calendar of Prayers: Practicing Gratitude
Rooted: The Gifts of Community
Because You Say So: Seasons of Insecurity
We are One: Prayer with Children
Let’s Go for a Walk: Community and Prayer
From First Steps to Riding on His Own: The Miracle of Milestones
Sibling Love: Sibling Relationships
Grace in Transitions: Navigating Growing Pains
Fights Worth Fighting: Learning to Coexist with Others
Welcoming a Little One: Expanding your Family and Sibling Relationships
“Are We There Yet?” : Being Present
Birthday Blessings: Marking Milestones
Opting Out (For Now): Seasons of Rest
The Gifts of Other Mothers: Friendship
The Women at the Well: Seasons of Nurturing Community
Ultimate Superhero: Grace over Perfection in Motherhood
Imagine: The Beauty of Motherhood
Beauty on the Path: Seeing Ourselves Through God’s Eyes
Afterword
Acknowledgements
"You will not meet more tender guides for your mothering journey than Kim Knowle-Zeller and Erin Strybis. A beautiful blend of story, application, and prayer, The Beauty of Motherhood is a master class in experiencing God in the everyday moments of motherhood. These pages are soaked in love, glimmering with grace, and will surely be a gift to mothers everywhere." -Ashlee Gadd, Founder of Coffee + Crumbs and author of The Magic of Motherhood and Create Anyway: The Joy of Pursuing Creativity in the Margins of Motherhood
"These poignant and prayerful meditations will bring you back to yourself - and the love God has for you and your children. The spiritual reflections and soulful prayers in this book affirm what many of us know to be true: On our wonderful, messy mothering journeys, we experience God in new ways. I'm grateful for the depth Erin Strybis and Kim Knowle-Zeller bring to these chapters, which are short enough for us to receive even in our most depleted moments. May their words care for your soul as you care for your family." -Kayla Craig, creator of Liturgies for Parents and author of Every Season Sacred and To Light Their Way
"Erin Strybis and Kim Knowle-Zeller share their deep intimate reflections of motherhood with profound tenderness. While reading, I found myself thinking of my own children while also imagining my mother as a young woman, cradling me in her arms decades ago. Certainly, no single devotional can address every aspect of motherhood. Yet, Knowle-Zeller and Strybis provide a poignant, compassionate, devotional for young moms that is inspirational and honest." -The Rev. Angela T. !Khabeb, ELCA Pastor, Living Lutheran columnist, Public Theologian, and Good Morning America guest contributor
"Where was this book when my children were young? In an easy-to-read, invitational style, the authors of The Beauty of Motherhood share a myriad of true-life stories that cover the messy, the mundane, and the marvelous moments of being a mom. Readable, relatable, and real, the stories are woven together with prayers, scripture, ponderings, and practices that combine to make this book an inspiring, perfect gift for any mom. Simply lovely." -Glenys Nellist, author of God Made Mommy Special and The Wonder That is You
"With honesty and wit, [the authors] offer mothers stories that will encourage, restore, inspire, and convict. They turn doubt and worry into faith and hope, sadness and frustration into gratitude and joy. Kim Knowle-Zeller and Erin Strybis look to and write about parenting challenges with a faith and a love that will fill mothers' souls so that they in turn may attend to the souls of those they've been called to mother." -Callie R. Feyen, author of The Teacher Diaries and Twirl
"When a new baby is born, a new mother is also born, whether it is her first child or her seventh. With gentle yet incisive wisdom, Erin Strybis and Kim Knowle-Zeller invite mothers into the beautiful, personal story that God is writing through their parenting journeys, 'one that requires imagination, revision, and plenty of faith.' This devotional is savory nourishment for the postpartum soul, beautifully accompanying the fresh fears, anxieties, frustrations, and tender epiphanies of those early years. I will be buying a copy of this timely book for all of the new moms in my life." -Kelsi Folsom, poet, speaker, and author of Breaking the Jar
"Kim Knowle-Zeller and Erin Strybis are two women whose words come from hearts that are so for you and your mothering story. Reading these devotions felt like being handed a soft blanket and offered a place on their family room couch to rest. I'm thankful for their stories, their compassion, and their gentle invitation to truly experience God's love as you do the holy work of parenting. "-Katie Blackburn, contributing writer at Coffee + Crumbs and author of Gluing the Cracks: Reflections on Motherhood, Disability, and Hope
"The Beauty of Motherhood brings a much-needed depth, authenticity, and intimacy to the genre of devotionals for women." -Englewood Review of Books
"Tender and true, The Beauty of Motherhood is a balm to mothers. Whatever moment you find yourself in on the sacred journey of motherhood, this book will leave you feeling seen, heard, and loved. Kim Knowle-Zeller and Erin Strybis kindly accompany us - the mamas - at 3am, at the door of the daycare center, in the quiet of snuggles, in the center of unencumbered laughter, and in the middle of a tantrum (ours and our children's), as we build a life of love. With Bible verses, stories, practices, ponderings, and prayers, this generous and thoughtful book allows us to soften, take a breath, and rest in God's abundant grace. Motherhood is a remembering, a coming back home to our Creator's love for us all." -Ellie Roscher, author of The Embodied Path and co-author of 12 Tiny Things
"Boy I wish I had this book when I was in the early years of parenting! I'm so glad it exists now. Kim Knowle-Zeller and Erin Strybis are great storytellers who have created well-rounded devotions that combine sweet moments with practical ideas and prayers. I know what I'm bringing to the baby showers in my future!" -Melanie Dale, author of Calm the H*ck Down: How to Let Go and Lighten Up about Parenting
"Finding the right devotional is like searching for a good, sturdy pair of shoes: you want it to hold up well as you journey through the mountains, valleys, and storms of life. This devotional is just that. Currently pregnant with my first child, I wholeheartedly trust Kim Knowle-Zeller and Erin Strybis' words to faithfully carry and guide me as I enter the adventure of motherhood. Becoming like those shoes that are well-worn through the ages, this book will live on my nightstand for years to come." -The Rev. Kelsey Beebe, founder of Dancing Pastor Ministries and host of the Lady Preacher Podcast
"Being a mom is often incredibly hard, so I'm grateful for Erin Strybis and Kim Knowle-Zeller's words and stories and reflections that give a space for softness and gentle reminders that we are not alone in this calling of motherhood. Whether you are looking to weave your faith more deeply into parenting or need to borrow new practices and meaningful prayers, these pages will nourish you." -Jenny Booth Potter, author of Doing Nothing Is No Longer an Option: One Woman's Journey into Everyday Antiracism
"Like gentle, wise friends who know when you need an encouraging word-and dinner dropped off on your doorstep-Kimberly Knowle-Zeller and Erin Strybis offer mothers a lifeline with The Beauty of Motherhood: Grace-Filled Devotions for the Early Years. Drawing from their years of mothering babies, toddlers, and big kids, The Beauty of Motherhood brims with honest stories, peaceful prayers, and simple practices to nurture your faith in the joyful chaos of parenting. For every mother who's ever pleaded with God at 3:00 a.m. or wondered 'Am I the only one?' Strybis and Knowle-Zeller are here to remind us that we are never alone and God is always with us."-Laura Kelly Fanucci, founder of Mothering Spirit and author of Everyday Sacrament: The Messy Grace of Parenting